DIY: How to make coconut oil

Coconut oil
Eyin temi,

When I cut my hair April, 2016, I began to read hair blogs and watch YouTube videos on how to care for natural hair. I found an article on the benefit of coconut oil and I knew I had to have it. Here in Western Nigeria, coconut oil is sold in the local market as 'Idi agbon'. I used it at one point as a child but didn't think much about its useful for my hair or skin. Guys, I think coconut oil and shea butter are the unappreciated skincare heros in Nigeria. 

Words of encouragement for the new week



Eyin temi,

Welcome to a new week. Sorry I didn’t post yesterday. Power surge fried my laptop charger and phone charger over the weekend so I had to deal with that yesterday. It’s still not sorted but hopefully by the end of this week, I should get replacements.

This week’s words of encouragement are from a song. I remember the first time I listened to it on my brother’s phone, I must have been 16 or 17 years old and I fell in love with it. 

My Dream Valentine's Day Date

Fehintola is definitely B tonight. 

Eyin temi (my people), 

Happy Valentine's Day!!! The highly anticipated day in the month of February is finally here. Today, my friend Leondra writes about her dream Valentine's Day date. I hope you enjoy it.


Words of encouragement for the new week


Eyin temi,

Welcome to the new week. Today's post is a series of pictures I found on twitter. I have found out we (in our 20s) place a lot of pressure on ourselves to to be rich and successful in our 20s that we sometimes forget that we can be rich and successful at ANY AGE.

3 Easy DIY Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas




Eyin temi,

Welcome to the weekend!!! Yay! Valentine’s Day is 4 days away. If you’ve been cracking your head about what gift to give the love of your life, I’m here to help. These gift ideas are simple and inexpensive DIYs. You’re going to love creating them and he’s going to love them.

How I teach my children to Love






Eyin temi,

Hope y'all are having a good week. Remember I told you I reached out to 2 of my friends to share love stories (click here if you missed the post), today's post is a guest post by my friend, Zarah, who's married with 2 beautiful children.  I hope you enjoy it.

Words of encouragement for the new week

Eyin temi,

Welcome to a new week. I hope you had a wonderful weekend with family and friends or alone.

I was praying yesterday and after trying to form the words of my request, I broke down and told God how afraid I was; afraid that he won't give it to me, afraid that I would end up making past mistakes and getting hurt, afraid of my choice. My fear was real. I thought it would choke me.

Hello February, I am single!

Eyin temi,

Welcome to February! January ended really fast guys; I’m still feeling dizzy 😵. Someone please give this year a ticket for speeding 😉